The Law of Attraction is very real and is there for people to live a life they’ve always dreamed of. But, how do you know if you need it or not? Perhaps you’re already living that dream life or maybe you are further away from it than ever before? I have made 3 categories in which I suggest the level of LOA in your life and whether you need the Law of Attraction or not as the case may be.
My Law of Attraction Categories
I’ve divided the need for the Law of Attraction into 3 categories. These groups are the result of listening, talking and researching the different stages of LOA we find ourselves in. But the most important findings arise from simple experience.
I’ve been a member of all 3 categories over the last 8 years and the results are my personal assumptions...no scientific research here. This is just a very real observation from actually going through the journey of Law of Attraction myself and years of emails received from people who are, or have been, in one of the 3 categories below.
Please don’t take this as gospel, it’s just a very personal report that I’ve witnessed from experience and been a part of for the last few years.
There are three categories each with an explanation of how I see the if the need of the Law of Attraction is to be applied to the individual.
Which Category Do You Belong In?
If you’re the kind of person who finds it relatively easy to go through life without the need of ‘want’ then you're in the 7,8 & 9 category.
You have a bright outlook on life and don’t allow negative things alarm you.
You accomplish this automatically, without the need to even try. If something goes wrong in your life, then you deal with it in a calm and measured way. You instinctively know what to do and rarely flap around like someone losing their mind.
When good things happen, you are not surprised but pleased all the same. You seem to always pick the right queue to get into, find the just the right parking space, get the hotel room with a stunning view without even asking for it...in other words, you almost always seem to be in the right place at the right time.
You don’t see yourself as lucky as all these things come naturally to you..and bad luck rarely rears its head. You have a lust for life and enjoy parties, get togethers and making new friends.
You’re likely to live to an old age, but rarely think about ‘the end’. Your life has been a series of adventures, mostly good, and you wouldn’t change a thing.
Money is important, but not the most important thing. Of course, there are happy, successful people who are solely driven by money, but they are in the minority when it comes to the main priority of life...being happy and contented.
You almost always go to bed with a smile and wake with one too. The day ahead is a mini adventure in which you relish the journey.
This way of thinking and acting is natural and doesn't have to be forced or learned. You just know what to do without giving it a second thought. Life is good.
This type of person is already living the Law of Attraction way and the vast majority of them don’t even know it. The only need for further reading of the Law of Attraction is to perhaps tweak the rough edges in some circumstances.
In other words, you’re living the life most people can only dream about.
If you want to become a part of the Cat:7,8,9 group you are probably in one of the two categories below.
In the Middle
The 4-6 category is probably where the majority of people congregate.
These are people who tolerant their circumstances and just get on with it. They run into their fair share of things not quite going to plan, but still come away with a feeling of acceptance.
Things happen to them in a negative way, but they accept them as a part of life. When good things happen it’s a case of them being ‘lucky’ and take great pleasure in the result...then things get back to ‘normal’.
They keep a close knit of friends and are sometimes wary of strangers, often judging the book by its cover. There is a fair amount of moaning going on in their lives and sometimes, only now and again, do they do something about it. But on the whole, they would rather let sleeping dogs lie and get on with their lives often turning a blind eye to injustice.
Mostly vocal in groups, but quiet when alone and would rather be left alone to their own devices.
Money is very important to them, as are relationships...health, not so much. They work hard to earn a wage to look after their family but would love to be in the category above.
Things often get on top of them and they tend to worry more about everyday things than the Cat: 7-9. But they work around them and accept it’s a part of life. Sleep is generally good, but they are prone to the odd sleepless night.
When waking, it’s a case of getting on with the day and being prepared to take whatever comes their way, be it good or bad, with a workmanlike attitude. Pleasure takes many forms and they know how to party! It’s a release and a good excuse to feel happier than normal.
This person is interested in the Law of Attraction because they know their life can be improved. But because they’re quite happy with their lot (underneath it all), they wouldn’t put enough effort into changing as they are reluctant to leave their ‘comfort zone’. Those who do, move into the Cat: 7-9 group. Those who don’t make the effort stay exactly where they are.
They think that changing their mindset could unbalance what they have right now, which tells me, they’re not in the right frame of mind to make the move. I think the cheeky description is ‘minions’ as they are quite prepared to go through life without overthinking stuff, working hard, paying their taxes, raising families and just accepting it as ‘life’.
Nothing wrong with that, but I feel trying to learn the Law of Attraction may be treated with skepticism. This is the hardest group to make the Law of Attraction work because the level of belief has to be the strongest.
Those who are prepared to go the whole way and commit to LOA often find it’s not as hard as they first thought. But they have to stay committed and be prepared to get out of their comfort zone.
The Group Where I Began My LOA Journey
This is the category where I find most of the people I receive emails from. They are often desperate to live a life they desire (don’t we all?).
Ever since they can remember, they have been plagued by ‘bad luck’ and every decision they make is the wrong one. They can’t catch a break!
Days are filled with darkness and misery with no obvious route for escape. They may be tied down to a huge debt or be in a relationship that feels like a trap they can’t get out of.
Lots of little negative things happen to them which chip away at their psyche. Each knock breaks off another chunk of their confidence. Having a positive outlook just isn’t worth it because there's nothing to be positive about.
The mind is cluttered of bad experiences to the point of submission and now they distance themselves from ever being able to get out of the mess around them.
Good things only happen to other people and they resent them for it. Bitterness is a part of their lives and anger bites at every opportunity. Often pessimistic and paranoid, they feel they are cursed to live the life they live and will never get away from it.
They gamble in the hope of winning a way out, but even then, they never expect to win. ‘One day, I’ll win the lottery and all this will change’ Really?
They see the Law of Attraction as a possible way out of their situation but find it hard to continue when the right results don’t instantly come their way. This embitters them even more.
To be in this category is the most frightening group to be in. There seems to be no hope and only an instant change will see them get out of it.
Depression, anxiety & paranoia are big players within this group…I should know, I was once a member!
This group is the one that needs to change the most. Just to get to the middle category would be great, let alone the top category.
This category needs the Law of Attraction more than the others. It will take a huge leap of faith to get going as most things end in disappointment for them. The effort needed to succeed is almost always beyond their capabilities. Their mindset is damaged to such an extent that to become positive is bordering on useless.
But saying that, this group stands the best chance of making the Law of Attraction work for them. If they take the view that nothing is working for them, and then read about the Law of Attraction, suddenly the penny begins to drop.
They often understand that making a few changes and committing to a set of rules, then there is a way out. They have nothing to lose, but everything to gain.
So, What To Do?
Those in Cat: 7-9 are the ones with a mindset that is priceless.
This has either come from an early life experience, hereditary means or been learned by the individual. They are living the Law of Attraction way and things come to them easily.
Manifesting comes as second nature because their thoughts and actions bring about their circumstances that are channeled by the universal energy of attraction. To get to this position, the first thing must be thought, followed by action that will result in your circumstances. It’s pretty simple but made difficult by so many.
It’s not as easy as it is written, if you’re not one of those that have LOA already instilled naturally, you will have to work to get to this stage. But with dedication, commitment, and belief, you can get there.
Cat: 4-6 people are almost there, but need a leap of faith to believe it can happen. The biggest problem here is commitment. They have so much going on in their lives that a change may seem too drastic.
To be in a comfort zone is to submit to greater possibilities for bettering a lifestyle.
If you’re in Cat: 1-3, I can understand the hole you’re in. It feels impossible that one day the life you lead now will be just a bad memory. It’s almost as if you’re trapped with no obvious way out and the feeling of desperation is now just a part of who you are and the life you were meant to live.
It really doesn’t have to be this way.
Recommended Course of Action
The categories I’ve mentioned above are not scientific evidence neither can they be sourced. It is only my view from being in Cat: 1-3 some years ago. I’ve listened to people at varying stages of their lives from those truly desperate to those who just want to make simple changes.
Over the last 6-years of this blog, I’ve heard from people from all walks of life who are both open and honest regarding their present circumstances.
Many have written to me explaining how they changed their lives by living the Law of Attraction way and continue to do so. All say it took work and it didn’t come easy and some still struggle to make it work...but they keep going.
But the majority of emails are from people who are desperate to change their lives and are seeking a way to alter their circumstances for good. Some emails are hard to read because it brings back to me how alike they are to my own story.
I can only answer honestly, there is no other way. My replies can be hard to read also because they tell it how it really is.
The most difficult emails I get are from people who see absolutely no future at all and are ready to do the one thing that none of us should even think about. Even when a mind is in total lockdown and refuses to change the possible outcome, there is still a way to rescue it.
When all seems lost, suggestions and advice mean nothing. It’s a horrible situation to be in and only a complete and utter change will resolve it. It’s difficult. Don’t ever let yourself get to that stage...do something about it TODAY!
This is where you really need the Law of Attraction in your life. The deeper you slip into depression, with negative thoughts, the more likely you are to end up in a position unimaginable.
Invest in a course that I recommend on my blog. Just do it and commit yourself to reading it, implementing it and trusting it wholly. These are not throwaway books, they really do set your mind into a working tool that brings confidence, positiveness and ultimately, what you really want.
Yes, it can be hard work and uncomfortable to carry out the advice, but when you think of the alternative, it’s common sense to learn all about the Law of Attraction.
I get emails saying I’m only in this for the commission I may receive for recommending these books, and I get that...not everyone will believe I do this to point people in the right direction, but I do.
These eBooks are affordable and offer a way to understand what has to be done to live a better life. They are easily digestible without confusing the matter and you only need one.
I could recommend programs and courses that cost thousands of dollars and I have no doubt they are excellent, but not everyone can afford that sum. And anyway, you get the same advice in these little eBooks as you would in a 6-month expensive course.
You really do only need the basics of how to work with the Law of Attraction to be able to make huge changes in your life. When you see the power of LOA and the difference it makes, you may wish to learn even more about it. But I’ve found as long as you understand the principles of LOA, the ‘magic’ comes together by committing to work with it Every. Single. Day.
The biggest hurdle to get over is yourself. We have this incredible tool within us that can change our circumstances to whatever we want them to be. But we rarely trust it or use it.
Open your mind to realise this and embrace the fact that whatever you put your mind to, can be accomplished.
Stop beating yourself up with negative thoughts and a reluctance to even try living the Law of Attraction way. If your life is nowhere near what you ‘thought’ it would be, then change those thoughts.
Commit, Believe, Act and Succeed.