Hi, my name’s Gail and I’m from the UK, Worcestershire to be exact, and this is a little ‘About Me’ and what I try to get across to people who want more out of life and also for those who think they have nothing but bad luck and misery ahead.
I’ve made this website because I’ve been there. I know what it’s like to be in debt, to have nothing go right for me, to fail at almost everything I’ve tried and to be in a constant loop of negativity. It stinks.
One day, when I’d just about had enough of trying to better myself, and failing again, I reached out and searched for a reason as to why good things never happened to me. There had to be an answer as to why I was always feeling down, always looking on the negative side and never expecting things to work out for me. I then came across a mental attitude that answered all my anger and resentment as to why I was not getting what I deserved out of life.
This GailPaul.com website is all about how I got away from all that crap and now enjoy life. Please browse the site and get some inspiration and please believe all that you read. It works.
Let me just give you a quick run-down of why I was always failing and why I nearly gave up on life.
Between the ages of 16 and 48 I had lost several jobs, been £100k in debt, almost lost my husband to Ulcerative Colitis, started my own business which saw us lose my 10k redundancy money in 3 months (it failed), not being able to maintain our house (which fell into disrepair), not able to afford decent furniture, lost parents through the worst kind of illnesses, left out of a BIG will, suffered bad health, no money, no future and many, many more stories of failure with these few examples given being just the tip of the iceberg.
Notice, all of those things were really not my fault and many people will say ‘well, you should have tried harder’…believe me, you won’t find harder working people than me and my husband and it’s a little offensive that people should have even thought that. We have never been disruptive, loud, vindictive, selfish, offensive or rude. We have never stolen, have never taken advantage, scammed or ripped off anyone. We have never been in trouble with the law, never missed a payment for anything and always treated people how we would like to be treated ourselves.
And that’s why, when I hit 48 years of age, I needed to find out why some people seem to drift through life without a care and STILL get the life they want, and why we, who work hard and worry, always seem to fail at everything and struggle for the tiniest bit of goodness in our lives.
We were nearly at the end of our tether, and I for one, seriously thought about leaving this earth, but would never have done so because it would destroy my husband and son…and they didn’t deserve that. I knew my husband felt the same.
So how did I emerge from this dark place?
I started looking around for the reason why this stuff was happening to us. I almost felt there was a curse on us, or was it just bad luck? I needed to find out. Anything would be better than how we lived then.
I then came across a 100 year old book called ‘The Science of Getting Rich’ by Wallace D Wattles written in 1904. I read it through and felt an upsurge in belief. I’m not kidding here, I’ve read books about being positive, giving yourself affirmations everyday, motivational themes and they just didn’t work for me…this old book though rang a bell and I re-read it and re-read it.
I then got myself deep into this ‘new age’ thought process, this universal thing, this piece of common sense…and things started to change. I read Bob Proctor, Napoleon Hill, watched and re-watched ‘The Secret’ movie and things made sense. At last, things made sense,
Throughout the last 5 years of believing what I want to be, I have seen our life turn around completely. Money started to appear from sources not known to me, items became available for us, holidays happened, smiles came, the house we always dreamed of became ours, debt disappeared, money came easily, health improved, happiness was on tap.
Now, if you think it’s all baloney that’s fine, but I can only reveal what has happened to me and my family since we started believing the things we want from life are already ours, we just have to believe in it and it will come.
Yes, I was sceptical at these claims, but that was before I really did start believing. It wasn’t forced, it wasn’t wished, it wasn’t hoped, it wasn’t prayed for…it was believed.
That’s why I have the time now to put up this website. To try to put across, not force, people to get into this state of mind. There are courses on this site that will help you understand what has to be done to get you away from the misery you’re enduring right now.
If you can believe that day will follow night, then that’s all the level of belief you will need. It’s going to happen…nothing in the world will change that.
If you want that house you’ve always dreamed of, it’s yours; all you have to do is believe it. Don’t force the issue, don’t hope it will happen or wish it would happen because that thought process will do no good at all. Believe it’s already there waiting for you, you just have to move in.
Move around the house in your minds eye when you have nothing else to think about, or when dropping off to sleep. Walk around the living room, look at the windows, the kitchen, the stairs, the bedrooms, the bathroom, the garage, the garden and then live in it, noting every detail inside such as the furniture, the TV, the phone. Don’t force this process, just believe it’s already yours and your going to get inside soon.
The way to get to this belief can be told so much better than me, so look out for the people who’ve helped change my life. There are plenty of guides, courses and programs on my blog. They all say the same thing, just pick one and go for it.
Well, that’s a little bit about me, I will be writing posts and updates as time goes by, and as this is a new website, it will be pretty sparse to begin with but will grow over the years. One thing I will say is that I travel..a lot! I aim to go across Europe throughout 2015 and then at the start of 2016, America here we come! (2017 edit – Done!)
You may think I’m a crank, slightly mad, an idiot…that’s fine. As long as you believe it, you must be right…right?
I hope you can see that if your life stinks at the moment, there is a way to get away and get what you really want. Just Believe.
Hi Gail
It would be lovely to have an update on how you are approaching the pandemic and the real threat this poses but also the scare mongering?
Also I think it’s very pertinent to ask if you have ever read The Biology of Belief by Bruce Lipton?
It’s quite hard to precis his book but essentially he proves scientifically that we are responsible for the lives we attract BUT this is affected enormously by deeply held self limiting beliefs.
Most of these these were accrued from the age of birth to 7 years! So you really have no control of them – they are accrued by your circumstances, the people around you, how much criticism you are subjected to etc..
If you haven’t read it – I highly recommend that you do and also your readers: especially those who wonder why the LOA is not working for them no matter how hard they try..
Hi Maureen,
Yes, it’s been a few months since I’ve been active on my blog and there’s a couple of reasons for that. The number 1 reason is that I rarely use the Internet anymore! From March to August, we stayed in England but went back to Greece in early September to sort out our rental. Now that’s done, we will be staying here until Christmas.
Reason number 2 belongs to the virus. I haven’t written anything about it because I feel I could upset a lot of people with my opinions and that’s something I don’t wish to do. Let’s just say I’m disappointed with the route governments are taking in their approach to beating this thing. It is rare they offer any positivity or forward-thinking, instead, they enforce doom and gloom, along with our troubled media. I have so much to say, but in this day and age, I would be struck from the Internet!
And don’t start me on the vaccine debacle! (lol!)
I think some of my readers would be shocked about what I believe to be true.
The Biology of Belief by Bruce Lipton is a book I’ve not got around to reading yet. I remember seeing it a few years ago and the content seemed to resonate with my thoughts of limiting beliefs installed at an early age. I will have to track it down and add it to my winter reading.
I also read your email regarding ‘The Healy’, and don’t worry, I won’t go ‘running to the hills’ about you approaching me with this device, lol! I will say I looked into this some time ago, along with other devices that are said to heal many ailments within the body.
Three things put me off the Healy Device, and please don’t take this the wrong way.
1 – The Cost
2 – I don’t particularly like, or trust, MLM marketing
3 – If this worked, the private health sector would be all over it.
That’s just me. Everyone is allowed to opine, and I truly wish there was something out there that could be medically proven to heal damaged cells simply by using a wearable device. It may have been ‘approved’ by the FDA, but so are weight loss pills.
If you are using the Healy, can you post back to me after Christmas with your results? I know you are an honest person and are trying alternative therapies to make things work, so I would value an update, say January or February 2021.
At the time of this reply, my hosting is having problems with email/replies going in and out of my contact list, so I hope this reply goes live on my blog. I’m in the middle of changing hosts for this reason.
In the meantime, Maureen, keep positive and do what works best for you. Don’t hold back anything that takes you forward, no matter what that thing is.
All the best
Gail
This is a nice page Gail and your story is inspiring. I am going through a huge downturn in my life or I should say I have and looking to make significant improvements now. Beginning with learning more about LOA and manifesting through meditation and The Law of Attention.
I also need to read the books you mentioned by Nathaneil Hill and Wallace Wattles.
I know that I must reprogram my subconscious mind besides just expecting the power of positive thinking to make the radical improvements that I am seeking.
I just wanted to comment how much that I do appreciate your website.
Doug
Hi Doug,
Those books are very important. They might be written using a language from the past, but what they teach, and relay, is even more relevant in today’s world.
My story was very painful to tell, but it’s in the past now…it happened, but it’s gone forever. If it wasn’t for those books, I know I wouldn’t have gotten out of that situation I found myself in.
After reading them once, I read them again, and again. I felt an iron will that changed my attitude towards life and built the foundations to my powerful mindset that is with me today. It took belief, positivity and real actionable steps.
It was a slow but positive process, simply because it was so alien to me, but I stuck with it because I could see changes happening every day.
Getting rid of all the noise, doubt and negativity inside my mind and replacing them with calm, self-belief and positivity really change my life.
It does take work Doug, but my word…it’s worth it and the journey is both satisfying and rewarding!
All the best
Gail
I have fallen across your website whilst looking for an honest review on Manifesting Key after watching the video, and not one linked to the program. It’s a breath of fresh air to find someone from England that is doing this and really glad that you and your family turned around your fortunes. I did read Wallace Wattles quite a few years ago and then rushed out and bought books to give tommy daughter and some friends. I was imposing my desire for them all, instead of their desires for themselves. I look forward to hearing more about your reviews. Enjoy your travels.
Kind regards
Dawn Griffith
Hi Dawn,
Thank you for your kind words. I do try to be impartial with my reviews about all things that involve manifesting and the Law of Attraction. Some of the eBooks that sell for around $40-$50 get a bad rap, and most of it is well deserved, but there are a handful that actually offer good, sound advice. It’s a shame the good ones have to be tarred along with the ‘not so good‘ programs in this genre.
I get sent eBooks and courses by the authors for me to review and not all of them get my thumbs up. This year alone I have been sent 25+ of which only 3 have merited a review. The others just didn’t offer anything new.
You will see many reviews online for these programs but most of them are just out for a quick sales commission without even reading the content. I go through them all thoroughly to see if they can push someone in the right direction towards a mindset that attracts the life they ultimately want.
I wrote about my experiences on this page and what I had to do to change my life around. It was all down to thinking and acting differently to what I was used to. I basically reprogrammed my thoughts from always thinking negatively and being tolerant of my circumstances to acting positive for the things I wanted from life and not to simply accept the things that were slowly destroying me.
Of course, it’s easier said than done, but the hard work and total belief in the Law of Attraction, and myself, got me through it.
There is one particular eBook I’ve reviewed this year that would help everyone on the planet if only they had the will to follow it through, but sadly, not everyone will commit to it. The eBook doesn’t sell that well because I was brutally honest in my review and it put a lot of people off buying it! It just goes to show that some people are still skeptical about the whole LOA thing or they’re secretly subconsciously happy with their lot.
You did a great thing by passing on literature from the likes of Wallace D Wattles to your friends and family. It’s a fabulous book which I’ve read countless times and there is always something in there that hits home, no matter how many times I’ve read it! I’m sure all who received your gift benefitted enormously.
Living and thinking this way has allowed me to travel, (something that makes me very happy!) but that means I don’t update my blog as much as I should. I’ve just returned from a long break in Crete (fabulous Island with wonderful people) so will write more with the run up to Christmas, but already my wanderlust is kicking in!
Thanks for popping by Dawn,
All the best
Gail
Hello,
Thanks a lot!
Like you, I suffered a lot in my life due to sceptical thinking (which is life sucking!).Then I realized the beauty of LOA ( basically rewiring ones subconcious mind) and my life has changed for the better (I was in a similar situation as mentioned by you till I was 47 years!).
Thanks Raj! If only people who are suffering with a bad life would give the Law of Attraction everything they’ve got…it’s totally worth it!
Interesting article about you. Yes, this stuff do work. I have experience the LOA since I was around 21 years old and still today. I came across the law from paying attention to my life as I noticed thing was happening in my life and I wanted to know why.
Thanks Amp! You hit the nail on the head there…“paying attention to MY life“. Radiating good ‘vibes’ from our minds and bodies will bring us what we want in life. It’s natural!